Should you text a guy when he disappears?

Hi, so I was just wondering if you should ever text a guy when he disappears? I mean ONE text only, not pestering him.

I generally don't text, and leave it to him, but some of my friends have said that guys might be testing to see if I initiate contact (I never do, as a rule).

  • No, see if he contacts you, if not then move on
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  • Yes, a casual "Hope you had a good week and work's not too busy"
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  • Yes, ask if he wants to meet up
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I forgot to say I am not talking about boyfriends doing this. I am talking about after a few dates. Thanks.


Most Helpful Girl

  • I usually would, but only once, if he doesn't reply then don't worry about it, which I know is hard.

    • Thanks, I do find dating difficult at times.

    • girl, we all do, it's very complicated and guys are complicated 🙃.

    • Thanks, you are kind.

What Guys Said 1

  • This rule bullshit is stupid
    I hate cryptic games
    Say what you mean and mean what you say


What Girls Said 2

  • You never initiate contact? You sound like a waste of time.

    • That's a bit of a mean thing to say. I don't initiate because that's the advice I usually get, and I don't want to mess things up with a guy if I like him.

  • Send a text, be casual about it. Just a "Hello" would be okay.