i get attached to people so easily and so fast, I've been talking to this guy for a little, not long at all maybe 3 or 2 weeks and today he didn't answer my message, he probably will later but I keep thinking about it, it's not just him I just get attached to anyone so fast, and it's insane, especially if I talk to someone everyday! Is this normal? How can I make it stop? And is anyone else like this?
Most Helpful Guy
Hi.. Yeah I think is normal for some people. I am like you.. I also can also get attached easily to someone.
Now, after given my situation much thought. No we do not get attached because we do not have other things to do or because we are desperate etc. I think it involves your way of thinking about social relationships. For example, many people can hook up and do not get attached to the other person, they do it ALL the time so it is normal. But for some other people, hooking up with someone, texting many hours a day another person, is not consider "whatever". It represents something because you only do it with people you care (to some extent). How can you make it stop? I think that by doing more of something you will give it less importance. So in your case it would be to text many other guys to not get attached, or hook up with other girls/guys for other cases so that one in particular does not mean anything. However, I think it is better to accept the way you are, embrace it and be around people and have a relationship with someone who is in your same page...
I hope that makes any kind of sense..3
Most Helpful Girl
Don't worry I'm like this too and it's something one can't stop... It just means that we are caring people and we build trust and bonding with that person right away... There are just some people that can touch someone's life especially if it's everyday talking to them... You build a connection that's hard to explain... I remember talking to this guy everyday and I got so attached that when he suddenly stopped replying I thought I did something wrong... It's not always us that are wrong but it's them... It really sucks not having someone you would talk to everyday it kinda feels as if something is missing , something changed , everyday is different... People come and go just so you know... Those who stay since the beginning must be appreciated and not taken for granted1