Okay so i'm literally not attracted to guys my age AT ALL, but it seems like all the older guys i encounter only look at younger girls as like someone to sleep with. Do you guys not take younger girls seriously as far as dating goes? Like are we just on two different pages in life or something? Because it never fails.
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Hmm, under 21 you're kinda right, at least for me. I mean you're still at university and we're hitting our prime in pretty much every area. We're getting decent money, have a stable career and probably our own place and bags of confidence. We're generally looking for someone to move in with us to see if she's wife material so we generally want her to at least be out of education and working.
Girls your age generally (not all of you) are still finding their feet in the world i think it's safe to assume most don't really know what they want. Is it kids? is it a career? Is it to enjoy the next 5 years of life freely? Is she ready for a long term relationship and isn't simply messing around with us and 6 other guys? If i commit to her will she reciprocate and change her mind 4 months later?
You're mostly attractive at this age so yeah we want to sleep with you, but long-term? We just have better options around the 25-30 year old mark.1