My best friend has known that I've been liking this girl since her and I last hung out. Every time her and I get a chance to hang out, even though we do have a great time it's like she's giving him signals. I honestly don't want to keep liking her because even though I try my best to take care of this lady it just doesn't make any difference between her and I. I've been wanting to tell her how I feel but every time I do I just swallow my own tongue and say another thing I didn't mean. My best friend is not attracted to her, she's just not his type of girl. He's even told me that even if I didn't like her he still wouldn't try to make an attempt to flirt because he just doesn't feel the same way for her. Yet if I got the chance for her and I to be alone than I know I'd try to give her signals (like I haven't already). I've been doing what I can to show her how I feel, but now that I think about the way she's trying to send signals I'm kind of disappointed in myself for liking her. Last time her and I hung out she asked me if I liked her, I gave her an indirect response saying "what would happen if I did like you?" She didn't listen to my answer and either said this out of pressure or honesty, but she just went from barely getting out of a relationship, not feeling the same way about me, still not moving on from her past relationship. Right after she had said everything and the bus she was getting home came, all I simply said to her was that "about your question about me liking you, my answer is yes" gave her a hug and left to my house. Before she left I told her to text me when she got home just so I know she got home safe. The look on her face seemed like she wanted to cry. I wanted to day something but I just remained quiet and let her go on the bus.
I have a feeling that my crush has a crush on my best friend, how do I cooperate with this?
What Girls Said 2
What Guys Said 1
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.