So, I'm talking to this dude. It's been almost 2 weeks. We have other convos, we FaceTime and text but he brings up sex a lot. He talks about how he wants to do it and the whole nine but when we first met, I told him from the gate I am looking for a relationship not just sex (even though I have been in a friends with benefits relationship) but I'm pretty over that stage. He constantly goes back and fourth "I respect that, I want to fuck you, I can wait, I just want it to go with the flow, I like you" I'm jut confused cause also, I have asked him if he wanted to be just fuck buddies and he said no but yet he constantly keeps talking about sex, then I'll say are you sure you want an relationship, he'll say yes. Like you either want to be in a relationship or you want to just fuck. Either or, I told him it's fine and he still goes with I want you and that shit. Also, he's 18 turning 19 and I'm 21. We haven't been on our first date yet, which is suppose to be tomorrow at the movies.
I have the same problem About the "talking about sex"?
What Guys Said 1
well think of it like this. you had your friend with benefits stage and got to have as much sex as you wanted and could get more if you wanted.
he probably didn't and wants sex much more than you did at that point. he doesn't have much tact but it doesn't mean he only wants to fuck you just that he wants to fuck you.0
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What Girls Said 1
I am sorry, but if he constantly brings up sex, he's lying to you about his intentions.0
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