And how can he fix it?
Most Helpful Girl
Let me ask you this... have you ever seen someone at a bar or on the street, and you just KNEW that he or she was feeling insecure, and lacking in a lot of confidence?
Now, how did you know? My guess is that you figured it out through their body language.
Believe it or not, your body language says MORE about the type of person you are, and how much of a quality 'catch' you are, than any combination of words that you can put together and articulate.
Research has shown again and again that over 50% of all communication is through our body language. So what does your body language really say about you? What does your body language COMMUNICATE to others?
If you are habitually looking down, or find it hard to look at a someone straight in the eyes, then you're probably also showing a lot of other "bad" body language.
Confident is a turn on. Insecure people find it hard to even get a man's/women's attention to start with.
If you show through your body language that you are a man who has no confidence, no self esteem or self worth, then women will automatically and subconsciously be turned off you. And they will also disqualify you as good "boyfriend" material.
if you presented yourself with confident high value body language, then more women will be drawn to you.
So really pay attention to, and master your own body language. This is one of those silent killers that don't always come up to the front of your mind, but will sabotage your love life like there's no tomorrow3
Most Helpful Guy
Problems with social skills (not too many friends), overly attentive to girls (doesn't establish you as a person of note), doesn't project a masculine vibe.
These tend to be the main ones.
"Confidence" is important too but often oversimplified. If you have confidence, you'll be popular in social groups as well, for example, but that may not necessarily make you highly sought out among women. More qualities are needed to really give you some sexual appeal.0