So, guys say and find me attractive, not all of course since you can't please everyone, but a good ratio of them do. They tell my boyfriend that he's really lucky to have me, my boyfriend is hot as hell by the way lol. Some even say that I'm far more good looking than him and that I can do better, which baffles me because he's attractive as hell. But girls find me ugly and say that I'm too ugly for my boyfriend. They say that I'm either just average or completely butt ugly and that my boyfriend is way too good looking for me. Why is it that guys and girls both think so differently of me? And I'm sure that even though some girls may be jealous, all of them can't be so there must be another reason.
They... are... fuking... all... bitches! Who gives a 💩 What they think about how you look especially not when they say you are ugly. Honestly, they are all jealous and just want to make you confused like you are right now by asking this question on here in the first place. Unfortunately, this world has a lot of self centered, disrespectful jerks that don't have anything good to say to others. Don't listen to people like this because you are stronger than that and secure. You know you are pretty so don't question yourself. ignore these people and enjoy your life. 😎
You have to understand that guys and girls compete quite differently with each other.
Guys compete who are the best and to prove themselves. Girls compete by bringing each other down. Its the nature of things since what they compete about can barely be influenced (good looks and being attractive which is defined by youth, health and fertility).
What these girls do is trying to sabotage you, because they feel threatened by you.
That's all in the mind Ofcourse boys will think that u are more beautiful because a boy can't find the qualities in another boy what girls can find Similarly, girls will find boys more attractive than girls It's all natural But some girls may also be jealous of you
If you are straight, you can usually only recognize and appreciate beauty in the oppposite gender. The men don't recognize your BF's attractiveness. They only recognize yours, so they automatically think you are too good for him.
Likewise, the girls can only recognize his attractiveness, not yours, so they automatically think he is too good for you. Either that, or they do think you are pretty, but are trying to cut you down because they are jealous.
Those girls are nasty mean people. They are insecure, so they compensate by trying to make you feel even worse. Pay no attention to them. Their behavior is so middle-school. Avoid them, hang out with grown-ups.
Girls are generally more critical in terms of looks than guys are. Either they don't find you that attractive (maybe your boyfriend is too hot indeed) or you are good looking and they can't stand you. Only you know the answer.