So i think I'm ok looking but people I know and sometimes random people tell I'm beautiful/pretty. (Btw I'm not showing a pic) So I've never dated or kissed and I grew up in a conservative family and I was encouraged to ignore guys because they were immature (which is usually true). So I'm very shy but I can be bold and very funny someone's which was helpful to break the ice because some girls didn't like me for no reason. So now I'm making lots of new girl friends but I feel kinda lonely and I want a boyfriend. My parents said I was mature enough to date. Cute guys stare at me but they don't speak they just get close to me so I notice them and look at me. Sometimes guys ignore me and then I catch them checking me out. This really handsome guy (way out of my league) did that to me this week at a program and as soon as I caught him he would look away. But he never approached me. During that same time this unattractive guy kept chasing me and talking to me. But this very cute guy has been chasing me for years now and we had a deep conversation once but he just sits next to me and doesn't talk to me. I don't know what to do...
Most Helpful Guy
You know guys can be shy too. Not everyone knows how to talk to girls, that shit can be scary.1
Most Helpful Girl
Because he's shy, inexperienced and has fear of rejection. Unfortunately guys like that don't get far with me. I've had a few that just stared at me, followed me around, stood next to me and waited for me to initiate the conversation so that they don't have to. If a guy makes it that obvious that he likes me, I at least expect him to talk to me eventually. The last guy that did this waited two years to approach me. I walked away when he was on his way over to me, because i got fed up of his antics and moved on. My first load of crushes that I had when I was at secondary school never took me by the hand when I was too shy to talk to them. I learned the hard way and eventually came out of my shell. I've been approaching crushes since I was 17. They lead me on by flirting with me, only for me to discover that they already had girlfriends. I seem to be cursed with attracting guys that are already in relationships or guys that never have the balls to talk to me. So, my opinion is that its up to the person who has the crush to act on it first.1
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