So i think I'm ok looking but people I know and sometimes random people tell I'm beautiful/pretty. (Btw I'm not showing a pic) So I've never dated or kissed and I grew up in a conservative family and I was encouraged to ignore guys because they were immature (which is usually true). So I'm very shy but I can be bold and very funny someone's which was helpful to break the ice because some girls didn't like me for no reason. So now I'm making lots of new girl friends but I feel kinda lonely and I want a boyfriend. My parents said I was mature enough to date. Cute guys stare at me but they don't speak they just get close to me so I notice them and look at me. Sometimes guys ignore me and then I catch them checking me out. This really handsome guy (way out of my league) did that to me this week at a program and as soon as I caught him he would look away. But he never approached me. During that same time this unattractive guy kept chasing me and talking to me. But this very cute guy has been chasing me for years now and we had a deep conversation once but he just sits next to me and doesn't talk to me. I don't know what to do...
Because he's shy, inexperienced and has fear of rejection. Unfortunately guys like that don't get far with me. I've had a few that just stared at me, followed me around, stood next to me and waited for me to initiate the conversation so that they don't have to. If a guy makes it that obvious that he likes me, I at least expect him to talk to me eventually. The last guy that did this waited two years to approach me. I walked away when he was on his way over to me, because i got fed up of his antics and moved on. My first load of crushes that I had when I was at secondary school never took me by the hand when I was too shy to talk to them. I learned the hard way and eventually came out of my shell. I've been approaching crushes since I was 17. They lead me on by flirting with me, only for me to discover that they already had girlfriends. I seem to be cursed with attracting guys that are already in relationships or guys that never have the balls to talk to me. So, my opinion is that its up to the person who has the crush to act on it first.
Either be the "man" and initiate conversations with these guys you find interesting or wait for some other guys that are more mature and not scared to talk to a Fukin pretty girl. Kinda sad they are too insecure to talk to you-helps you to see if you find them mature enough or not for your liking (all depends on how you feel) best of luck 😊
the age old common question girls ask on here, and the age old common answer i tell them. guys are not the only ones who have to approach especially since most girls dont usually want them and most guys know it, and most guys are not going to approach, so the best thing a girl can do is approach and ask out the guy she wants cause its usually the girl who decides on who she wants when she wants anyways, guys usually dont have that luxury, guys are commonly rejected, girls usually dont get rejected because there physical beauty prevents rejection.
Just cos a guy looks in your direction.. does not mean he is interested in approaching, dating or making an effort. There are millions of girls around in every day life and I look at any attractive ones.
A lot of the time it's not worth the effort so I just look and carry on with my day. I used to approach women back in the day and had great success and responses but I can't be bothered anymore.
Ever heard the term 'the juice isn't worth the squeeze...''
Yeah. Guys outside of college are immature. During college, girls are more immature than guys. In fact. Girls in college vs ones that are not are pretty much on the same level.
Ask him out its really simple lol. Oh by the way, lots of dudes don't seem to have balls anymore. But not to make this a racial thing it seems to affect white Guy's and more then hispanic or black guys. They seem to have a cock sure arrogance whereas shot loads of white dudes don't have confidence. Oh well, I guess it's natural selection working itself out. It's re guys that pursue who end up with the girl whereas the guys who don't lose out which is how mature intended it to be.