i feel really lost and when i ask for help on any avenue i get no replies, no help... i feel like my problems are just unique to me and no one can help me as a result... i really don't know what to do anymore. I'll try one last time posting something online. Male, 23, just graduated with a Bachelors in business management. I've applied to over 50 jobs this summer, been to over 8 interviews and followed up on a lot of jobs, i simply can't even get a job for minimum wage..., i can't afford to drive a car anymore, i bike to interviews... i can't date if i can't even afford to take a girl out to dinner. The bigger issue though is getting a date, in college according to everyone i knew i am extremely good looking but lack confidence. how do i put myself out there to find a girl? i never had interest in hook ups, i could of had countless hookups in college, i chose not to. i googled this and people say go to a library etc and talk to a girl, this just makes no sense to me, i might as well go up to a girl on the side walk and say want to go on a date? what am i doing wrong?
Why does no one answer my questions?
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You need to man up and handle your own shit. Maybe its coz you are without confidence that you do badly at interviews. Business graduates are not engineering or law graduates, you can't just walk into a job, you need to work hard.
As for this website, the time you put up a message is important as the majority is in the US. And also, this website shoudnt be for advice, its for opinions.
Learn to handle your own shit and you'll be succesfull.0
Cos you right laborious blocks of text on boring subjects.0