This is of course assuming the date went at least fairly well if not excellent. I almost always text the night of if I want to see the girl again, or I ask her to let me know she got home okay and let her know then that I enjoyed the date. I don't personally find this clingy, but I know girls who would take it that way.
Just wondering what other people do, feel about waiting vs. letting the person know you enjoyed it!
P. S. Of course girls can text first after a date! I just know most likely this is left up to the guy.
- I am a girl, and I would prefer a text the same night as the date88%(14)58%(15)Vote10%(1)
- I am a girl and I would rather he wait some/ not come on so strong.12%(2)8%(2)Vote0%(0)
- I am a guy, I like texting the girl right after the date0%(0)15%(4)Vote40%(4)
- I am a guy, I like to wait a little while to avoid coming on to clingy0%(0)19%(5)Vote50%(5)
Most Helpful Girl
Right after the date. It's not clingy , it shows he really enjoyed the time with me and is thinking about me. I'd view it as a positive thing.
I would text a guy after a date. To let him know how much I enjoyed it. Providing it went well and I liked him. If not, then I wouldn't initiate texting0
Most Helpful Guy
I'll text her after, maybe that night maybe next day just depends on how late we get in or whatever0