So we've been together for nearly a year now.. and we've not said "I love you" to each other yet. So once when he had.. had a few and we got intimate, he said "I love you" to me. I said "me too" back. Because I wasn't sure if it meant something. Today after we got intimate (he was sober) he said..."love you" again. And I said.. what? And he immediately blushed and said... nope... nothing nothing. And didn't touch on the topic all night. So do you think I should talk to him about it or just let it be?
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In my experience I would tell you to move on. I am currently in a relationship with someone who has a huge problem with expressing himself to me. We've been together for 10 years married for 2 and in the beginning it was rocky and has only gotten worse. Mine has always told me he loves me but that is it and nothing more, zero communication and it has led to him going after other women. If he has a problem with communication, commitment or saying I love you after a year, then he has some serious problems that you can not make better. Girl, just save yourself some misery and get out now. People can change but they always do it in their terms and when it is right so if it isn't happening with you, you are not the right one for him. Nothing wrong in that, so lick your wounds get back on your feet and find the one who falls head over heels for you and will do everything it takes to make you know you are his and do everything it takes to keep you. Bottom line, a man in love will naturally do all he can and make a serious effort for the one he falls in love with. He won't be perfect, no one is, but you shouldn't have to question his love or devotion to you. Granted, their are bumps in long lasting relationships but with communication problems can be resolved and I can't stress enough that communication is key. Good luck2