Like @Bandit74 said, its really pointless trying to explain or talk sense into women. for those who have been on that side of the table enough times, know it is very very tiring. Kinda like that phrase women say "tell me the truth and i promise i won't get mad" that huge ass lie? its kinda like that. there is almost no convincing women, its just a setup. so many men, smart ones, don't even bother beginning the journey. i was answering a question today about begging/pleading with an ex to come back... and i said that it seemed like the more i pleaded, the more rooted she was in the decision to leave. Its nearly never worth it to explain or say anything because either: 1. she doesn't get it 2. she refuses to get it ("women are never wrong") or 3. she sees and understands but guy feelings come second to hers.
some guys ghost becoz some girls are stupid ! we talk when talking is useful.. we dont like long emotional talks that comes with nothing eventually. if we need to complain about something , it has to be once. if it is not fixed this means either the girl doesn't care or she is stupid and she didn't understand.. both are bad and means talking is not useful. other causes of ghosting can be feeling sooo angry of her that you can't even see or talk to her. and the most annoying cause is when she gives u the " i dont understand face " while you are sooo sure she understands everything!!
Because clingers never get the fucking message. You can't be nice to people like that.. they take it as an opportunity to try harder. Been there done that. Make intentions clear and go no contact. Simple as that.
We come from a time when talking about your feelings as a male makes you look weak and "pussy" so we just learn to keep shit to ourselves, also lets be realistic women you like the idea of men talking about their feelings, but if they did it all the time something's wrong you'd be starting to think this guy is a bitch, and not a man that handles his shit. No woman wants a guy that complains and completely opens himself up 24/7
It depends if they know why the problem is, if there's a problem. Maybe you did something that seems like an obvious disinterest or did one of those girly hints that nobody understands and he took it in a bad way.
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I've ghost men. It's hard, because it's been done to me and I know how much it sucks. Joke on me one of the guys I ghosted ended up being a customer at work... that was awkward. But to answer your question, I am sure it's the same with men... they either were not interested in anything serious and you were too serious, they found someone that clicked with them more or something like that. For me I didn't intend to ghost I just didn't answer the text right away, and then forgot, and then it just got awkward. Not always in that order but basically all it takes
Men in general are not partially comfortable with feelings. Some naturally know how to communicate that way and others don't while some had to learn. Age has nothing to do with it. It's mentality and wither or not they are mature. Age doesn't make them adults or men just because their over 18 or 21 years old. You can be 43 and still be a child.