I give my guy lots of space and am totally understanding of his video game and bro time. But with the lack of quality time (conflicting work schedules mostly) in the times of his absence I find my self getting upset over things and telling my self he doesn't care as much for me. I KNOW he does and he's never given me a real reason not to.
Today we had a talk because my feelings got hurt. He told me I make him feel like he's not doing something he should be and asked me what he could do to keep me from getting hurt and ultimatly thinking he doesn't care... I had no answer. I know I need assurance that they are still into me (not daily, but not 1/yr either), but I don't know what, other than specifically telling me, would help me feel better... anyone else been here?
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yes! i feel the same way. i am not a needy or clingy person who needs to be around someone all the time- in fact i feel like im an introverted extrovert and i need alone time. but i understand that you need assurance bc you want to know he still wants to be w you. i think what would make you feel better is if he plans special dates for you guys or if he gives up the time you give him to spend w his friends to be w you.. but thats his decision. the only thing i think you can do is ask for words of affirmation1