I am 24 today and never had a boyfriend, i didn't care before this but now i feel worried and i think i have a problem forming relationships with people, rather friends or boyfriends... how can i get over this and put myself out there? I have this problem with building a social life... i hate attention from other people... will i end up alone? Will people think i am weird?
cannot see your photo... part of the link must be chopped off.
nothing weird about not dating at 24 in my opinion. but "hate attention from other people"... what's that about? Get counseling to work that out.
How can I put myself out there? you just have to find things you enjoy doing, and practice being social. go to church, hang out with friends, talk to people in passing at social places. Just look at every interaction as learning and practice as opposed to some goal... and it is all to learn about yourself and others... develop a real interest in others.
lol I see me in the future. you even look a bit like me haha. anw look you re good looking in my standards. I like your style. to have a boyfriend you actually need to meet people, aka socialize. also be open to it. are you too shy and insecure?
You're definitely attractive so at 24 it is hard to believe you don't get approached. From the description I think you might have Social Anxiety. At 24 yes I would definitely take it seriously and find a way to form relationships.
You can't resolve an issue unless you know exactly what the issue is to begin with. Like I said it could be Social Anxiety, low self esteam or other issues.
We in same boat as of last year, i had my first girlfriend at the age of 25, then i had my first sex... wits not a bad thing you don't have a boyfriend, and it does not mean you have a problem not knowing how to mingle/socialize, you just have to learn how to meet and interact with people outside your Locale, that may give you more courage to interact with the ones around you better, so don't loose courage, you damn beautiful, Lovely, with Nice smiles, only blind guys will not notice you...