I am 24 today and never had a boyfriend, i didn't care before this but now i feel worried and i think i have a problem forming relationships with people, rather friends or boyfriends... how can i get over this and put myself out there? I have this problem with building a social life... i hate attention from other people... will i end up alone? Will people think i am weird?
this is me
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Most Helpful Guy
cannot see your photo... part of the link must be chopped off.
nothing weird about not dating at 24 in my opinion.
but "hate attention from other people"... what's that about? Get counseling to work that out.
How can I put myself out there? you just have to find things you enjoy doing, and practice being social. go to church, hang out with friends, talk to people in passing at social places. Just look at every interaction as learning and practice as opposed to some goal... and it is all to learn about yourself and others... develop a real interest in others.
Most Helpful Girl
lol I see me in the future.
you even look a bit like me haha.
anw look you re good looking in my standards. I like your style.
to have a boyfriend you actually need to meet people, aka socialize.
also be open to it.
are you too shy and insecure?0