Again, you think he's attractive when he approaches
- That would definitely work on meVote A
- That might work on meVote B
- That would not work on meVote C
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I voted definitely work, but it's not what you say that gets you success. If I fancied him then I would respond positively anyway, if I didn't, then he can try as much as he wants and I won't ever fancy him.
It does make you sound a bit needy though.
Girls get frustrated with the same thing, wasting your night on a man with a girlfriend. I don't flirt with others if I have a boyfriend, so I can't understand why people do.
You could just try asking her early on in the conversation. Maybe do it in a jokey way, like "Wow your boyfriend is a lucky man!", then she might say "But I don't have one."1