When I was in high school I really liked this guy but wanted to put school first so we decided to be friends. He did not enter a relationship until 3 years later when during a stressful time i told him we had no future. In less than 2 weeks he was in a relationship. We fell out of touch for a while and started talking again for 4 months now. we are going back to the comfortable place we were before. we have both admitted to still having feelings for the other. My issue is I feel it is just not worth it, no guy moves on so fast. I like him but I feel like it is way more than he actually likes me. who moves on in 2 weeks. Am I making a big deal out of nothing?
Most Helpful Guy
don't see it that negative. I was in the same place once. No future with her she knew it, i knew it. And I realised it would be very hurtful. so i used the first possibility with another girl. not because i didn't liked the other one anymore but because i knew it would destroy me if i'm not doing anything. so i did it, couldn't forget her but found another wonderful woman i had a future with (in my case)
so don't be too harsh. see where it is going and enjoy it without any bad thaughts0
Most Helpful Girl
If you feel like it's not worth it, don't continue.1