Hi, had a firend ( for 6 month), he liked me, told to my two friends, he would call me out if I was single, 2M ago. We just broke up with my boyfriend.
He is a shy guy but tried to get me out with him a few times ( friends didn’t show up, etc.).
2W later, he called me out a few times, but I rejected him. I had a lot of work to do, and honestly I wasn’t sure. I needed some time after my breakup. 1M ago we went to a club with our friends, we slowdanced a lot. He kissed me on my forehead, was very gentle, and was also rubbing my back during the dance. But than a friends grabbed us to dance with them, and it ended there. We never talked about this moment. But there was a connection.
After this night he called me out hiking , was helpful, texted me a lot, called. Rememberd things about me…even my number, which is rare these days. We spent a lot of time together during next 2 W. Invited me to a concert (it’s going to be in 3 month). Wanted me to join him for a whole weekend at a sports tournament. But I didn’t know those people ( his friends even family!), he told me it’s ok, he will introduce me. I didn't go.
Last week when we went to a concert I felt that finally it is the rigth time for me. Until than it was just too soon and I was a little freaked out. But nothing happened, he was not so kind as before, and wasn’t even trying with me. I was disappointed and didn’t understand what’s going on. When we stayed alone on our way home I decided to ask him.
So I asked him if I can have a question. He smiled at me: Sure.
Me: ‘Last time when we danced you gave me a kiss on my forehead. Did that mean something or it was just like in the heat of the moment?’ He looked at me and asked:"when?". I told him.
But I know for sure he was not that drunk and remember everything. He is not the type to get sooo drunk to not remember things and mentioned that conversation before. He got a little nervous and told me: “Yeah I was drunk” I smiled at him and said ok.
We sat there for a few minutes in silence, when he began: “You know, I has nothing against you, but I don’t want a relationship with an older girl. I had a girlfriend who was older than me and it didn’t worked out.” I told him quickly I didn’t wanta relationship either this year, after my breakup and everything going on.
Why was all trying when he rejected me than? ... :(
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You can't make him regret it. I think it would be best to move on and forget about it.0