we been talking and he's pretty perfect in every aspect... Except he works a lot 50/70 hours 5 days a week. But we been talking and want to date. Something told me to ask because he said on his days off he does errands and hang with family. So I asked if he had a lot of friends or male guy friends he said No except his partner who he drives trucks with for his job
First that strikes me as odd and weird. Second that concerns me! I feel like he might make me his whole world and depend on me for stuff like he's a homebody and I gotta plan fun stuff. I've heard many things about guys who have o friends.
do I have a right to be concerned?
i asked him why he doesn't have friends he said because there married or have girlfriends or they stopped talking to him.
oh and he's six months younger than me
Most Helpful Guy
I think your over thinking it. He stated he has friends but they are married, then thats going to eat up a lot of their time, he works a lot so that eats up a lot of his time. So when both parties have only a little time and their schedules prevent them those times from synching up then thats obviously going to cause distance. I wouldn't really be all that concerned if thats the only issue. If their where other ones, then yeah it could be an indicator of social awkwardness (but then he seems to be talking to you fine) or some kind of issue but if this is the only red flag I would presume that the reason is benign. Give it a shot see what happens.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I'd date a guy who had no friends. There's many good reasons why he doesn't have friends. It doesn't mean he's a bad person or unlovable. I'd judge him by his character not by how many friends he has or doesn't have.
Although, I'd probably judge him based on the company he keeps. So I'm more likely to judge him based on his choice of friends rather than having no friends at all.
I'd give him a chance. Get to know him. Having no friends doesn't mean he won't make a great potential boyfriend.4