I don't know where things are going with this relationship. I haven't met his family, he has met my family or kids, and we keep going to the same place over and over again he chooses. He's self centered and is scared of commitment. How do you date a guy that's not on the same page as you? I've pulled back a little. Not putting 110 into this to only get nothing. How do I pull back enough not to give him mixed vibes?
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you have to communicate. your reaction sounds very healthy and mature. Id say you both need counseling to get through this. Self Centered and scared of committment... you aren't gonna logically convince or emotionally manipulate him to change. He has reservations or wounds and needs help. If you just said... committment issue... that's something else. But self centered... that's gonna be a problem unless you don't mind living with a selfish person... e. g. a narcissist? That's gonna be miserable...0