Everyone tells me that is the secret to success with women. But unfortunately I am naturally shy, quiet, and nervous, especially around women I like. So how can I get more confidence and get the girl?
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You are not alone!! Lot's of guys have this same problem!! But it doesn't need to be a problem.
Find a comedian that you really like! For me, it was Robin Williams, and George Carlin.
Wherever you go, in your normal life, just talk to as many women, of all ages and types, EXCEPT the ones that you like, or think are HOT!!
Try to make them smile, or laugh!! Mostly checkers, or waitresses, maybe, for most guys?
Just talk with them, and try to make them smile, and laugh, using something similar to your favorite comedian's style (obviously, some like Eddie Murphy, Richard Prior, and Chris Rock, might not be so good!!)
Just get comfortable talking with all kinds of women, that you AREN'T INTERESTED IN!!! When you can make them laugh, and smile, and like you, then you can move on to the ones that you kind of like, or think are maybe a little attractive, and just try your 'routine'!!
Most women say the thing that attracts them most to guys is their sense of humor, and how they make them laugh!!
The more interactions you have, the more laughs, and smiles you get (oh, and sometimes unexpected phone numbers!!!) the more confident you will start feeling.
Give it a try!! I KNOW it works, but you have to put your own, PERSONAL spin on it, and BE YOU, to get them to like you!!
Just remember, women 'sense' insecurity, and lack of confidence, like dogs 'sense' fear!!1