I met this guy at my univ while waiting for my adviser. I sort off started the convo by asking about his design model and in the end I asked for his number. He said if I need any help with the registration tomorrow to talk to him. and that s what I did haha. I talked to him at 6 am and he was nice enough to reply and all. anw now since I have his number, can I ask him out for coffee or smthng? I mean he s a smart dude and I wanna chat more. But I am afraid he has a girlfriend or smthng cs last time I wanted to ask someone out turned out he had a girlfriend :p Also I don t want it to sound like a date/date, I just want smthng casual.
Good job asking for his number! I love that! Of course you can't know yet if he has a girlfriend, but there's nothing wrong for asking him if he wants to get a coffee. Very casual, and you two could meet somewhere. If he says he doesn't feel comfortable doing that 'cause he has a girlfriend then you have to admire his honesty and fidelity. (And that's NOT a rejection of you!) Or, if he agrees to have a coffee or drink, and it comes up in convo that he's involved then you'll find out that way. There's just no way of knowing yet. But if he's unattached you'll rock his world by calling him up. How would he not want to meet up with a girl as pretty as you?
I think you are on right track - Ask him out for a coffee on a casual basis as friends and through these series of contacts - If you know people he knows or social media contact plus interaction with him, you will find out if he is single or not - There is no harm in trying, if he is attached or not - Most guys/girls would drop it into conversation early to avoid confusion - It is a simple analogy, if you never leave your home, you will never be hit by a car but on the flip side you will never go anywhere new which could be to your benefit - I don't see any particular issue with your approach.
So far it has been good, so he likes you. So ask him out for coffee. During coffee you will talk and learn a lot about him. And he will not think badly of you in any case over something as innocent as coffee. It is win-win! Go for it, girl!
Ya go for it, coffee is nice and neutral. This one should be easy to get into because you both have a mutual interest/goal. Don't worry about the girlfriend thing, i mean at worst you make a new friend (altho not sure you need anymore from ur last question lmao)
What I sometimes do is make a joke like "oh, does your guy find ik okay if you do that?"... as a trick to know if they're single or not :D Or you can say "haha if you stay so nice, next thing I'll ask you out D " and see how he reacts! If you feel like it, do it. Don't waste chances to become happy :D
I am guessing he is a student as well. You should ask him if he wants to study with you and you can help each other get university work done. After a while you could just say to him "Hey, I am going to grab a coffee do you want to come?" Even if he has a girlfriend coffee is reasonably harmless and that is his decision anyway.
Atta girl! I'd make up your mind if you want to date him or just do some as friends thing. You should probably make it sound like a date and get the girlfriend thing out of the way or just ask if he does.
Just drop a text and say "Hey , do you wanna go get a coffee sometime after uni" as simple as that. It doesn't indicate date nor does it make you sound desperate or coming on to strong. If he agrees bare in mind he still may be taken. Get to know him when your having a drink. Drop little hints or questions to see if he has a girlfriend.