A lot of men complain that it is, but in my experience the really attractive, bikini pageant-level girls are actually more down to earth and approachable than average girls are. In fact, I see more of them with overweight and/or unattractive but goodhearted guys than I do with really attractive guys. And I know it is not about "settling down" either because these people are still young, and the guy is not wealthy at all. In contrast, I see a lot of really attractive guys similarly settling for unattractive and/or overweight women for reasons that escape me.
This coincides with my own experience. I've been treated rudely by, snooted, and downright insulted by more average and below average girls than I ever have by amazingly attractive girls. In fact the latter are actually nicer to me. My father is one of those guys who got one of the really attractive girls. People still think that my mom is my sister yet she's almost 40.
Ironically it seems to me like average guys will have a better chance with amazingly attractive girls than they will with average and below average girls. Would you say that it is easy to get a really attractive woman to like you if you behave like a gentleman?
Most Helpful Girl
In my experience it's the somewhat pretty average girls, that are the hardest to get. Not that I've ever tried to hit on a woman, but I have many male friends and I've watched this happen with my female friends too. I guess it's because men think that these girls are okay looking and still easily approachable and that makes most of the guys to hit on them. Which means they have a bunch of guys to choose from. But when it comes to the amazingly attractive women, guys either think "well she's probably taken", "she wouldn't choose me anyway", "she must have an awful personality" or something in line with those. And the ones that actually get the nerve to hit on the most stunning women are either those that think they have nothing to lose (the average-below average guys) or some overly-self-confident sleazebags. So the amazingly attractive women learn to appreciate a gentlemanly approach from at least somewhat attractive men. Due to the reason that guys are usually scared of her or act awfully around her.
Surely there are many reasons why the most gorgeous women end up with not-so-beautiful men (like personality), but what I've seen happening around me is this. Guys saying they could never go talk to my model friend because she's too beautiful and intimidating, her never being approached by the normal good looking guys and my average looking somewhat pretty friends getting most of the attention.0
Most Helpful Guy
No, it isn't.0