She never mentioned it to me before and all the sudden she tells me after I've slept with him for three months. I don't hang out with guys that have girlfriends so this made me feel awful. I haven't spoken to either of them since but he doesn't know that I know. We made plans to see each other again and I m just not showing up. Why wouldn't she tell me? Should I confront them both? I really don't want to involve myself in drama right now.
Really super bummed right now.
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I'd be very upset if my friend didn't tell me that. It's very deceitful. My friends would know in the end I'd be the one getting getting hurt due to his deceit and lies , so I'd be questioning my friends motives for not telling me. 3 months is a long time to hold back from telling you that.
If it was my friend in this situation I'd tell her as soon as I discovered the truth about him. I'd feel I'd betrayed her if I kept that from her. Plus, I'd be helping to set her up for heartbreak by withholding it for so long. Its really devious0