TWENTY-FOUR. There are women who have babies at this age and at least a couple relationships... and me nothing. I feel socially behind. I had a guy two years ago who used me as a rebound and threw me away, (I didn't had penetration sex with him just lots of foreplay) After that situation I became more distrusting and gave up on 'love' to me he was my first kiss but to him I was nothing. I only saw him 5 times in a month tho... so that wasn't even 'special'. Am I weird? I feel like I missed out on love experiences and I feel I can relate to many women as friends cause I never dated... I mean twenty four... how am I going to explain this im still a virgin...
Most Helpful Guy
You don't have to explain anything to anyone. But I certainly understand your angst. It's difficult when we're constantly bombarded with images of people in relationships or hooking up and we can't figure out why it's not happening to us.
I can't speak about your situation specifically, but it seems to me that perhaps you haven't been putting yourself out there and meeting me people. You might give off a very closed-off vibe that guys pick up on. At the end of the day, if you want a boyfriend you're going to have to be proactive. Those Disney fairytale stories where the knight in shining armor shows up out of the blue doesn't happen in real life. You gotta put yourself out there to get anywhere in life. Life only meets you part way.0
Most Helpful Girl
well i dont have the exact samesituation as you. i am 20 and i am a virgin but for me it is totally by choice. i think its commendable to still be a virgin at this age because it can be difficult sometimes. obviously i can't sspeak for every guy but in my experience at least, not one single guy has ever found it weird or not liked the favct that i was a virgin. they thought it was hard to believe and uncommon, but they were never put off by it. so i dont think you should worry about what a. guy will think; if he judges you for it then he is a huge asshole anyway.
and it is so not weird that you haven't been in a reationship. it is just harder for some people to put thenselves out there and gain an attachment with people in the dating world. maybe its just not a part of in your lifestyle to meet guys easily that arr worth dating. maybe you just are picky when it comes to guys youd like to be with or maybe you have comitment issues. based on the way this one guy treated you i think its understandable that maybe you dont want to be too easy or give yourself to a guy so wuickly in that way again.
long story short, you should never feel bad or weird about this. you sre who you are and you do what you sre comfortable with, and any guy whos worth it is not going to judge you or care0