I've been sleeping with a guy and we've been on one date. It's been two months. We have a lot to talk about, we get along well, he's a really nice guy, super affectionate, opens up and I've met his friends a couple of times. I definitely get the feeling that he likes me when I am with him. I take some time to open up. I'm very private so based on my actions, if I were him I'd think I wasn't that into him and may just be looking for casual sex.. But I always text first at this point. Since he always reply right away and is happy to meet up I've continued. Last time I met him I kind of messed up a bit, I showed up really drunk and was a little rude, I said some things that made him he snap at me and withdrew. I haven't talked to him since and he's a bit distant. I think I manage to push him away. You know I have no idea what to do? I'm kind of in this place where I don't want to walk away because I really like him at the same time I don't know what to do about it. Should I just tell him that I like him? How do I do that? I look at this situation and have no clue what is going on right now other than the fact that I like him. It's so easy to let it slide but I'm gonna regret doing it and think what if. I'm not sure if he's not into casual sex, if he's not interested, if he's mad at me or what else.
Most Helpful Guy
I actually don't recommend telling him you like him at this kind of lower point. It often backfires. Make him like you. Be easy-going and invite him to see him again, perhaps.
Try to spend more time and save those kinds of confessions for when you two are really intimate and bonding so that you have a better chance that the feelings are reciprocated. When one person tells another that he/she likes him/her, often the response is good only if the other feels the same way.0
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Most Helpful Girl
I actually don't.
Try showing it to him.
Compliment him, touch him, tease him a lot, give him attention etc.0