Just a question inspired after watching the movie "She's out of my league" ;)
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
- I don't believe in the "league" thingVote C
Most Helpful Girl
I don't believe in leagues. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. Leagues are just a way to let other people have opinions on your relationship, a way for them to discuss if the guy and girl are equally hot. Other people's opinions don't matter whatsoever, my future boyfriend will always be the hottest in my eyes, and people can think whatever they want, that won't have anything to do with our relationship 💁🏻1
Most Helpful Guy
No one dates out of their league. It's human nature. I can prove it. Would you date a homeless guy? Of course you wouldn't. Why? You're out of his league. If you're in a relationship with someone who you believe is out of your league, rest assured you are not. They wouldn't be dating you if they were.
For example, a hot woman might be over-emotional and insecure. An equally hot guy would probably reject her opting for another hot woman who is not so crazy and less needy, where as a less attractive guy may be willing to put up with that needy behavior rather than date a woman who is less attractive.
Or another example. A guy who is ripped with 6 pack abs but is extremely feminine and shy around women would probably be rejected by equally hot women who wants a guy who is both ripped and confident. A less attractive woman might be willing to put up with his lack of confidence instead of dating a guy who is less attractive.
Neither is right or wrong. Everyone has different strengths and weakness to offer in a relationship and everyone values them a little differently. The key is to 1, always be improving yourself, and 2, look for people who value the same things you do. For example, if you have a passion for circus performing finding a partner who also has a passion for circus performing will make them more likely to overlook other areas where you might be lacking, and vice versa. Follow those two rules and you will maximize the quality of partner you are able to attracted.0