Up until I turned 30 last year, I always seemed to have some nice guy after me. I know it sounds conceited, but I am pretty and look young, and guys and girls say that to me a lot. My last relationship ended 5 months ago. He was widely acknowledged as one of the hottest guys in town, so I guess I may feel a little more fussy in the looks department after being with him (sorry if that sounds shallow, but I can't help it!). I'm over him, but now when I go out guys barely seem to notice me. I think I am quite down to earth and and fun-loving, and have lots of friends to hang out with. Sometimes I look at a guy and smile and he quickly looks away. Sometimes I try to approach a guy, but they act really rude and I feel like an idiot for trying. I feel like I suddenly have two heads! And if someone and I catch each others eye, it's always ruined by happening one minute before my friends want to leave. Are guys more likely to approach when ur in a group or alone? I have tried popping into bars for a quick beer alone but no success either. I feel invisible. It just seems that everywhere I go, no one is interested in meeting anyone, and just want to hang out with their friends. I'm not talking about just hot guys, I mean every guy. I live in the city, so I wonder if people are less approachable? I have two girlfriends who feel this way too and we're starting to dwell on this a bit! Any advice?
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Maybe your looks have changed since last time you were single? Maybe you don't seem as fun and happy as you used to? Maybe you don't dress as sexy? I don't know.
I know a lot of guys are shy though and don't approach just because they are afraid of rejection. I'm sure there are lots of shy guys there who actually would love to meet you.
And about those rude guys you approached: Don't let them bring you down, you were probably just unlucky because I think most guys just get happy if a girl approach them.0