Just wondering, I really want to go to a bar tonight because I never go out. But I don't have any friends and I'm single, so whatever I do, I always do alone. While going to movies and coffee shops is nice, I want to go somewhere I never go. And I've only gone to a bar like twice in my life, including in college.
Would it be weird if I went alone and just sat there with a drink so I could get out of my apartment for ten minutes?
3mo I'm only asking because I hear that women don't normally do that and people in general already think I'm weird. I don't want to be any weirder.
3mo Also, sorry if this sounds like a pathetic or stupid question, I just didn't know if women actually did it.
I wouldn't think that's really weird. A lot of women don't like to go out alone to bars for other reasons. One of the more common ones I heard was that they want to be with someone else for safety reasons. Some people would think it's weird but it comes down to what you think or may feel. Some people can't handle doing things alone and some find it to be very comfortable
I'm in your same exact situation, but I go to bars a lot. I'm single too, and when my friends aren't available and I want to get out, then I don't care if I'm by myself. I sometimes meet some cool people and sometimes I enjoy me time. I do a lot of stuff by myself so you're not the only one. I go to the movies all the time by myself.