Sooo I'm 21 and have never had a boyfriend and now I'm wondering what's wrong with me? I asked a 'how do I look' question earlier on this site. All girls said I was beautiful and most guys said gorgeous/pretty/very cute etc. A lot did also say I look friendly.
I know a lot of people are gonna say that Im probably too shy. Well, I'm a little shy but not so much that I can't have a normal conversation or anything. Im pretty social. Also have a lot of friends.
So I don't know what Im doing wrong? Lately I feel so sad about it 😞
Most Helpful Guy
Change your view and purpose a bit. Go out and about and be open to meeting and dating guys. That will make you look more approachable.. I assume you are not being approached. So... you could initiate conversations with guys... every discussion is a step towards being more sociable and available.
Don't become desperate or needy because you haven't had a boyfriend yet, that will either turn guys away or open you up to being taken advantage of. you still need to filter guys out to the qualities you are looking for.
The hardest part of anything is getting started. Once you get started and have a boyfriend, then it will be easier to find others as it isn't such a mystery. It is never "easy". some people have many BF's and find them easily (probably because they cast a strong sexual presence) and others few, but are selective. there is nothing wrong with either, just what works for you.
What do you think about the idea of hiring a guy to be your boyfriend? I just thought of that off top of my head as a silly idea. that is... you are in control that way until you fire him... lol. I am serious, its a creative idea to get some experience. sounds desperate, but what if there were guys for hire that would teach you and train you, for a small fee or just food?0
Most Helpful Girl
you are doing nothing wrong sweetie :)
you only did not met your love yet. sooner or later you will find your prince charming
:) good luck1