I'll be 21 next month and I've never been in a relationship, never been on a date, never been asked out, kissed or anything. Every time I like a guy he's either already in a relationship, uninterested, or most recently, gay. Plus I'll admit that, esp. being in college right now, dating has never really been high enough on my priority list for me to really go out and try... over the years I've told guys my feelings/ "made the first move", but that ended with them acting cool about it at first, then eventually ignoring/avoiding me so I'm turned off from doing that ever again. Plus I know a lot guys my age are only interested in sex and I want more than that. I'm just worried that the longer I go without having dated, the harder it'll become because guys will start to think something's wrong with me. I've heard guys don't want the burden of dating a virgin, but I've also heard that some guys don't mind it.
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It has never mattered to me if a girl has ever been in a relationship or not. I've known women who are the same age I am or older who have never had sex or never been in a relationship, and I actually would rather date them than to date a woman who's been through several relationships that failed, because it says something about her character and what she's doing wrong or NOT doing. And although I'm not one of those guys who's crazy about virgins, I do find older adult female virgins to be really sexy for some odd reason, lol.
So I think it's better for you to know what it is you want first, and work on what YOU can offer in a relationship, than to be concerned about how old you are when you get into one. Never-been-kissed is still better than been-kissed-a-bunch-but-still-failing.1