It seems like every guy in this world hates me. They only want me for hookups and stuff and nothing else. For example they'd treat other girls well or even post status saying I wanna treat you well and I wanna take someone out... etc but when it comes to me they always invite me over to their place and when I ask why they say it's to do sexual stuff and I ofcourse say no then they stop talking to me. I just don't get why do guys like other girls and also wanna be friends with them but when it comes to me they all hate me and only want hookups? They don't even try to get to know me they just look at me and then ask to do stuff like that
That's what I look like
Most Helpful Guy
You're seen as an easy "yes" girl, and a path of no resistance to sex. In other words, guys don't see you as very attractive for either your personality or looks.
That's not me deliberately insulting you. I'm analyzing this from how guys have reacted to your objection. They expected an easy lay because of how you carry yourself, and you didn't meet expectations, so they bounced.
You need to stop pretending that you're just as attractice or dynamic as these other girls, and learn how to set the right expectations through your body language and demeanor. Dont just say yes to guys hoping and praying you will be treated differently. You won't. Learn to say no, even if the guy is hot to you. Make him work hard and understand you. You also need to let hot guys walk away because of this, but remember they were never in it for the right reasons.1
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Most Helpful Girl
First things first; Guys are VERY visual, not even an understatement! The first thing they will see are you breasts. Don't show off your breasts in pictures because that indicates a booty call or a hook up and to me personally when I look at that photo; looks like a hook up and you want sexual attention rather than personality attraction (no offense!) You look stunning and beautiful! You have to show guys that your more than just an amazing figure but indicate to them that you want a relationship/date. Wear more clothes that cover your cleavage and make sure that you know when to say no. Boys like to test to see how far you will go with them and if your going all the way then there is no reason for them to hang around since they got what they came for? :)1