This guy I've been chatting too, asked me if I'd like to grab a drink. Now I know it will sound stupid but I've never actually been asked on a first date to go for a drink. It's always dinner or a movie. could he be thinking gets me tipsy he will get in there. Im probably overthinking but I thought I'd ask.
Most Helpful Guy
ok having a drink and talking is more of a casual opportunity that is better to actually get to know each other.. as your not stuffing your face =P There are also things that will spark conversation like pool, dart, dancing or just whatever music is playing.4
Most Helpful Girl
A drink or coffee is the perfect first date - easy to talk, low key and casual, plus not a big waste of time and money if you don't hit it off - much less pressure.
That's almost all I do for the first couple of dates. You control your drinking - most drinks dates don't involve getting hammered.3