Ex wanted me back
And I said yes but under one condition no pot
And we'll yesterday I questioned our relationship asking do you think we will last and he gave me this big speech
Then said I'm coming over tonight to reassure you
He came over stoned
And when I mentioned it he said he didn't expect me to notice
Most Helpful Guy
He obviously doesn't value the promise.
It could be something he's dealing with that causes him to smoke a lot. I remember when I was younger, I would smoke all day. I could do anything while high. Tests, driving far, meeting girls, etc. So when the girls would get 'truly' upset at it - it was no biggie for me. In my mind, the scenario was more, "I've been smoking for 8 months non-stop and just met you. You want me to quit smoking pot? What?"
Most Helpful Girl
So what's your question? It sounds like you made it pretty cut and dry. If smoking weed is an absolute deal breaker for you, then break up with him. You've let him know how you felt about the matter, you can try talking to him about how important it is for him to not do that, but you're basically going to be asking him to change his lifestyle for you, when honestly at that point I think it's more worth it to find someone who is more compatible.
That being said, I'm not sure WHY it's such a huge issue for you.. I know a lot of guys who sometime are MORE productive when they smoke. There are different strains of weed and some make you sleepy and stoned and fuck around but other strains help people focus, bring out more creativity, calms them down, etc. As long as he's completely functional when he smokes or doesn't do it around you if you don't like the smell, then maybe there's something you can compromise on.0