We had an argument Sunday night and kinda left things on a bad note. We would talk about it the other day but he disappears without a word for hours, ranging from 3 hrs to 5. He said the app we talk over crashed but he was on Facebook a few times. I don't understand this... I got pretty short with him and so there's been no word today either.
Most Helpful Guy
1. If a guy takes a few hours to get his anger under control before he talks about a problem. . . that's a good thing. Trying to make him talk before he feels ready to talk is never productive.
2. If he is lying about why he is not in contact with you, that is a very strong warning sign. No one thinks they are a liar; they are merely people who encountered circumstances where they were "justified" in telling a lie.
3. Try texting him: "I'd like for us to talk and resolve this problem if we can but I don't think postponing a discussion is helpful. The test of a good relationship is not whether you encounter problems but how you handle the situation when you do encounter problems. I hope we can handle this the right way."1
Most Helpful Girl
He didn't want to talk about the argument.0