I decided to try online dating today for the first time through bumble. However, as we all know a picture isn't necessarily going to clearly show you what someone looks like. Because of this when I got there it turns out I just wasn't attracted to the guy. I tried to still make the best of the night, we got dinner and saw a movie. I was friendly and talkative throughout the whole time because even if I wasn't into him he drive an hour to see me so I was hoping that he would still have a good time. I thought it went fine, I had fun, but it was nothing too special. When we said goodbye at the end of the night I think he wanted to kiss me but I just went in for a hug. Then he said we should see each other again and I unenthusiastically agreed. I'm hoping those last two things were enough for him to get the hint, but if not I don't really know what to do. I feel bad because he did everything right, I just wasn't into him. If he asks me out again it's not like I can be like sorry, not attracted to you. My friend told me that if he texts me I should respond but just not keep the conversation going or anything so eventually he'll get the hint without me being rude. I just want to see if people agree. For the record I'm in college and he's a recent grad.
Most Helpful Guy
You should not have agreed to see him again. That was a weakness on your part.
You should have said, "I appreciate our date and I am glad we were able to meet, but I just don't see that we are a match. I realllyyy hope you find someone. Thank you again. Goodnight."
Women way too often have a spine of jelly. That just confuses men because they say one thing and mean something entirely different.
To make it up, the next time he contacts you say, "I've thought about it, and I just don't think we are a match. Sorry. Good luck."2
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him straight up that you don't want to be with him.0