I decided to try online dating today for the first time through bumble. However, as we all know a picture isn't necessarily going to clearly show you what someone looks like. Because of this when I got there it turns out I just wasn't attracted to the guy. I tried to still make the best of the night, we got dinner and saw a movie. I was friendly and talkative throughout the whole time because even if I wasn't into him he drive an hour to see me so I was hoping that he would still have a good time. I thought it went fine, I had fun, but it was nothing too special. When we said goodbye at the end of the night I think he wanted to kiss me but I just went in for a hug. Then he said we should see each other again and I unenthusiastically agreed. I'm hoping those last two things were enough for him to get the hint, but if not I don't really know what to do. I feel bad because he did everything right, I just wasn't into him. If he asks me out again it's not like I can be like sorry, not attracted to you. My friend told me that if he texts me I should respond but just not keep the conversation going or anything so eventually he'll get the hint without me being rude. I just want to see if people agree. For the record I'm in college and he's a recent grad.
NO HINTS goodness there are already enough females that do this. Op as a guy, just be blunt, if you think he is going to be sensitive then sugar coat your words. Hints are the dumbest way, and most guys don't get that shite, and not everyone studies body language or sign language or whatever xD. Or actually go out again and say let's be friends and shit sometimes the best way to see the light is to embrace it. Meaning be friends, you may end up liking him after all and if that is not the case then keep it mutual or don't see him at all. Just no more hints, please. ^^