I met a friend who lives a good distance from me. We've talked a lot over the two years we've known eachother, and I grew to like her and be very open with her about, well everything.
I like her, great personality, and her voice was always super cute!
But, when I saw her there were some very offputting things about her appearance, the face is just something that makes 90% of a person's physical appearance to me, and it's caused me to reevaluate whether or not I would really want to go out with her at some point if we were to move closer, or even try a long distance thing.
I guess my question is, am I being too shallow? Should I just leave it alone?
No it's harsh but you have to be honest if you aren't physically attracted to her. That attraction is so important in a relationship. I had a similar experience except I'm the girl and I'm not his style at all. It sucks but at least I know tthe truth.
Physical attraction is important to everyone , so it's not shallow if you aren't attracted to her appearance. Before most people consider a relationship they first need to have the initial physical attraction. Their personality determines if the relationship continues and progresses