Just trying to work it out? there's this man who tries his hardest to get me to cheat with him, as if I'd be second best to his witch of a girlfriend.. so I quizzed him on it, he says he is looking for excitement.. he's been cheating on her since he got with her..
so so when he told me he loved her I said no you do not!!
Makes me wonder, what do you class people like that? Narcissists, chancers, beta male/female.. A strong person would walk away from a relationship that wasn't exciting to them,
i don't know I just find it sick-- no I haven't went near him gave him the boot and I'm not second best to anyone or anyone's but part lol.. ESP to a silly little girl like her.
If if you've cheated and say you loved the person you were dating at the time, explain to me to make me understand?
Most Helpful Guy
In many cheating situations, its usually just a small part of the relationship that is usually off and the person playing victim in the cheating scenario is usually uncooperative in fixing it regardless of how many times it has been brought to their attention. If the person loved you as well, they would take the time out to compromise, fix or at least hear a person out rather than abject refusal or rejection. That in itself is cheating and where it starts and they deserve whatever happens next.
Anyone that feels because one aspect of their relationship is not satisfactory so they throw the entire relationship away... more grease to their elbows. that relationship may have be like 98% satisfactory but they are willing to throw all that away and start off at 0% again because one little aspect ain't right. Call it strength... i call it stupidity.
There was a time where I did cheat because i thought it helped. Got my satisfaction AND kept my relationship... but later, i realized something.. some people that cheat try to solve the problem AFTER it happens and get their concern ignored... i give disclaimers BEFORE it happens. Meaning.. i tell her exactly what would happen should certain events occur. i call it preventative measures... that way, it doesn't come as a surprise when it does or she has the option to leave if she finds it unsatisfactory or unfair. There is always room to negotiate though, always.
You say you can't tell someone you love them and then cheat on them... well someone can't tell me they love me but are totally unwilling to hear me out to fix or compromise on a certain concern of mine. They can bite the big one then.
Then there are the regular cheater who just cheat for greed sake... those are the despicable ones. What irritates me the most is that they always get the kind of partners that are willing to work stuff out to maintain fidelity in the relationship.0
Most Helpful Girl
If they truly love them then they won't cheat, the end.3