I mean, how long can you just be dating... And when would it be normal to start a relationship?
I recently met a guy and we have been seeing each other only a few times. He talks to me every day and asks me out every other day. I usually don't go, because even though I like him I feel like I need my distance. I am still missing another guy and I don't know if I am ready for anything serious at the moment. Do you think I can just see where it goes or will this guy most likely want to know what I want soon? Is it fair to him?
How long have you been only dating before you started a relationship?
- See where it goes57%(4)50%(7)Vote43%(3)
- It's unfair14%(1)21%(3)Vote29%(2)
- Tell him0%(0)7%(1)Vote14%(1)
- Go on a few more and then make a decision29%(2)22%(3)Vote14%(1)
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id just see where it goes. if he asks, id say im seeing where it goes. i mean as long as you're honest he should not expect you to make decisions based off of information you dont have. you can't decide what you want without knowing him better. so get to know each other better. how long you need varies person to person. and keep in mind , you CAN like a person and not be ready or a commitment. i would feel like you need to rush just bc you like him therefore 'should' ant more. if you dont you dont. he's either ok being patient or he's not. but thats on him not you. you worry about your own pace. in my opinion.1