And be the 'Rebound guy' for 6 weeks, until she finds some other guy!! Hell NO!! If a woman just got dumped, or broke up, and I an just a friend, I'm there for her, but NEVER stepping into the 'Rebound Position' listening to all her angry venting, and really crappy sex, because she is still thinking of the ex!! If a relationship ends badly, that woman is really not good for a new relationship for about a year, from what I have experienced and heard from other friends. She needs her space to get things sorted, and any guy, stupid enough to get into that, is just going to get SHREDDED!!!
Give her space because I don't want to be a rebound. The last thing I want is to be used and then abandoned when she no longer needs me to distract her from her break up. Wait it out until she is over it and then after that see if their is a real connection.
I'm the opposite. I stay far away from girls around the time of breakup/argument, because nearly every decision she makes and action she takes will be in reaction to that prior event. In other words, she isn't being genuine, and if their relationship dynamic ever reversed course, she would bolt and go back to her ex/abuser. Myself, as well as other guys who may take the bait and fall for her outreach would then be left cold.