There is this slightly mentally retarded guy that is hitting on my girlfriend hard, pretty much once a week he's asking her out. Because he is slightly mentally retarded, his parents have basically made him work out at the gym with a trainer every single day all his life. He's 5'11 and from what I hear, pretty big. I'm 5'7 and 135lbs. I'm not exactly a 135lbs of pure muscle either. I am currently seeing a trainer and hitting the gym but only recently and it can take years to put on sufficient muscle. So until then, what can I do? It was pretty confidence crushing when my girlfriend said "There was no way I could take him on."
Most Helpful Girl
You shouldn't beat him up. He has mental problems. Just tell your girlfriend to ignore his advances.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well, is your girlfriend 100% on your side, or she likely to respond to this other guys advances?
Yes, it's annoying and wrong to have some other guy hitting on your girlfriend, but he's mentally retarded... Do people expect you to beat up a retard? No, of course not.
Be cool and confident, let your girlfriend say "Thanks but no thanks", and see if he gets the hint.
Don't pick a fight.0