I don't understand it. I read about all these guys who can't get earshot of a woman and have never once had this problem. I'm not wealthy. I'm not a leader. I'm not alpha. I don't dress well. I'm no sex god. I don't approach first. I don't even look good and am out of shape!
You just said that you don't dress well, so maybe you could start dressing well! Girls like it when a guy is passionate about something, maybe you could start a new hobby/sport or even join an amateur dramatics club. This will be a good way to boost your confidence and maybe help you feel comfortable interacting with women.
listen here dude, i was never approached by women until i worked out. i got more confidence and random women would approach me while running in the park, not only girls but also guys, they wanted my advice and my friendship. like people come to me and they talk to me and we are friends. its all about charisma, confidence and feeling good. it attracts people.