I am all for waiting or just getting over it out of respect of the relationship.
But recently my friend went against all advice and he told a girl who had a long term boyfriend (of 6years) that she should leave the guy for him... and SHE DID. And now they're dating.
Have you done this? Did you get to be with them? Was it immediate? How common/rare is this?
(I've been into a guy for years and he's with this other girl. I just want to tell him so that I can move on because time isn't healing or helping. But hearing no from him would do it. But ever since my friend got his girlfriend by doing this now I'm actually worried he might leave her for me -which strangley, I don't want. I just want to tell him I like him and have him tell me No. I want to move on more than I want to steal him)
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There is a saying that goes " heart wants what heart wants."
When you're in a not so good relationship or lonely you might fall for someone who's taken.
It happened to me twice. Once I fell for a guy who was seeing another girls. Second time a guy told me he had feelings for me even though I was seeing someone else.
The greatest love stories are stories of forbidden love. Just saying1