There's a guy I like that I really want to ask out, I'm just so nervous. I feel as if I am not pretty enough for him, or that he won't find me attractive. I feel as if he's probably looking for someone thinner and more model looking, and I can't say if that's true or not it could just be me. I need the confidence to just ask him. Any tips?
Most Helpful Guy
Well if you ask him out, I think he'd find you even more attractive!
Gaining confidence though: you have to start proving to yourself you are worth something, instead of convincing yourself that you aren't. There isn't an explicit method to achieve this, as it's different for some people.
When I was building mine, I would ask myself everyday: "What do I want to do? What do I want to wear?" and actually go through with it, and say fuck it or yolo.
Most Helpful Girl
If you feel like you're not pretty/good enough, start working on/improving yourself.
Confidence will eventually come.
Also, ask him out. If he says "no", it doesn't matter. There are plenty of other people who would be interested in dating you.1