Why would an ex avoid you at all cost?
Most Helpful Guy
It might be because seeing you and thinking about you hurts too much.
If it was you who ended the relationship, that would be what I would say was most likely.
After my first serious girlfriend broke my heart (I was 21), seeing her on the street was too much for me to cope with. It was a relatively small city, so bumping into each other from time to time was almost unavoidable.
Is it possible that speaking with or seeing you has a similar effect on him?
If it does, it means that he loves you deeply.0
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe the relationship ended badly and they don't want anything to do with you. Some of the are just trying to move on by focusing on themselves. There is no need to speak to them if you are not with them anymore, just do your own thing and let them be. Plus talking to them is awkward, you get this awkward vibe and just a lot of silence. I don't understand why someone would want to continue speaking to there ex if they aren't with them anymore. If your ex is trying to avoid you at all cost, you should do the same as well. Exes are exes for a reason.0