Why would an ex avoid you at all cost?

[Anonymous]

Why would an ex avoid you at all cost?

[btbc92]

They avoid you because they still have feelings for you and is trying to move on, without them losing their sense of self, because they KNOW at some point it will lead them to getting hurt again. If the break up was psychologically traumatizing for the person, this is how they would react. They are now reestablishing the walls that guarded their heart. That is what he is doing, especially sense they do love you, and they gave you their heart and you showed that you never deserved it in the first place. It's pretty painful for both males and females. But we females handle it far more emotionally as males handle it mentally and psychologically, which effects their sense of self worth.

[AnayaWilliams]

Maybe the relationship ended badly and they don't want anything to do with you. Some of the are just trying to move on by focusing on themselves. There is no need to speak to them if you are not with them anymore, just do your own thing and let them be. Plus talking to them is awkward, you get this awkward vibe and just a lot of silence. I don't understand why someone would want to continue speaking to there ex if they aren't with them anymore. If your ex is trying to avoid you at all cost, you should do the same as well. Exes are exes for a reason.

[akadatank44]

Hey that's my line! "Exes are exes for a reason" you steal it? 😜

[Paris13]

Not every Breakup is the same with An... Ex.
However, your 'Ex avoid you at all cost,' is either a Sore Sport right now, but may get over it and Contact you Eventually, or he's just Made up his Mind to Move on and Doesn't want Any kind Of... Contact at all Anymore.
Good luck. xx

[77srawrats]

I try to avoid my exes because it's just awkward... One of my exes comes into my work pretty often. I ended things with him. I avoid him as much as possible because there was a reason we're not in each other's lives anymore and I prefer to keep it that way.

[cth96190]

It might be because seeing you and thinking about you hurts too much.
If it was you who ended the relationship, that would be what I would say was most likely.
After my first serious girlfriend broke my heart (I was 21), seeing her on the street was too much for me to cope with. It was a relatively small city, so bumping into each other from time to time was almost unavoidable.
Is it possible that speaking with or seeing you has a similar effect on him?
If it does, it means that he loves you deeply.

[akadatank44]

Because you are an ex. I don't get the notion that some people have to stay friends because of their past. Bull fucking shit. This isn't "happily ever after"land folks this is LIFE. Lots of you need to grow up. Idc if he was your best friend growing up if he treat you like shit in yoir relationship you shouldn't be friends with them after you exes. No reason to hold on. It'd unhealthy.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the situation honestly... Maybe out of fear, anger, internal issues, he's doing something shady, or from feeling hurt. Or maybe because now that the relationship is over, he feels there's no reason to be in contact, just like many other people do when they break up.

[Randosimed]

Many possible reasons, here are just a few:
- He hates you
- He still likes you but wants to move on
- He neither hates you nor likes you but it could be awkward
- He has better things to do elsewhere
- New girl who doesn't want him seeing you

[Victoriella]

It could either be he's trying to move on from you or he's hurt so avoids you because seeing you hurts him too much.

[selmo93]

Might have ended badly. I really don't want to see most of my exs

[vonasaurus]

uh, because s/he's your ex. d'uh.

even if things didn't end badly, it's probably awkward.

[Kr320]

Perhaps he is trying to get over you and wants to avoid contact.

[Anonymous]

I avoid all of my exes. They suck for different reasons and I have nothing to say to them so why would I go out of my way to see them or speak to them?
Exes are exes for a reason.

[joeb73]

They are your ex and don't want to be reminded of what was

[YaBaba]

He probably wouldn't want any contact with his ex.
Some just doesn't like any sort of contacts.

[cookies4ever]

it depends on a lot of thing
1) who broke up with who
2) why did the relationship end

[Kurmo]

Maybe they don't like you?

[mooky06]

I'm pretty sure it may be out of awkwardness

[skaikrasha]

Depends. What was the reason for the breakup?

[hawkeye92]

cause you're an ex. it's over.

[atomique]

I rather not hang a prejudice, hypocritical cunt.

[Anonymous]

He is avoiding me because he owes me money...

[Anonymous]

Theyre an ex for a reason. Its over, move on.

[orphan]

because you're an ex.

lol..,.. jeez.

[Smmyskittles]

That was so detailed. Well done, G.

[bcromartie]

Because you're an ex.

[cooldude25]

because they are an ex.. ancient history. move on