I'm just curious, there's not sentimental reason for the question--I'm just curious ( 21 college girl). Would you date a thick girl? Like a size 9 or 11. Even if she had a pretty face and good personality. A lot of the good looking guys I do or used to talk to gave me mixed answers to this question. Some said no because they prefer thin/ fit girls. Whereas the other half said they don't mind it, especially if the girl is nice and has a pretty face. So I'm a bit torn of what to think about what men prefer and are attracted to. I sometimes feel that men are picky more towards the physical aspects of a woman rather than who she is as a person.
3mo Some of you guys are assuming that I'm putting down thick girls lmao Where in my question did I state such a thing? Anyways, a perfect example of what I mean by "thick" is like the beautiful model Ashley Graham (she has an Instagram with her actually name^). I personally believe that all women are beautiful and I was simply asking a question.
I prefer it, I always imagine this scene... I hope one day it's a reality... dating for awhile, comfortable enough for her to lay over on me and watch a movie on a rainy Friday night... Then go to the bedroom where it is dark and cool, with a slight breeze from the ceiling fan. With only the dim light shining through the window, we look at each other and despite the darkness, we can see each other blushing. We go in for a kiss, and instant goosebumps and soon turns to french kissing. She turns around, wrap my arms around, slowly kiss her neck, I feel her panties hit the floor, push her over the bed and she says wait, i have something for you. She pulls me down and jumped on top and immediately I went right in past the tight muscles and the euphoria sat in. She rocks and rocks with each passing minute until the ultimate finish. .. so anyways that's how I feel about a thick girl
On first impression thick girls never really did much for me visually. For example, if I saw Kim Kardashian in a night club, I really would not be so interested in her.
That said, that's in a context where people are mainly being judged by first impression. I have fallen for girls I didn't really like that much initially on first impression on second impression, after getting to know them and seeing them in various situations and from various perspectives. They became more beautiful to me in those cases through the process of getting to know them.
In the case of Kim K though, I think second and third impressions of her would make me even less attracted than the first impression.
Some guys insist on a thick girl. I've seen this many times. I've even seen one husband leave his thick wife because she set out to lose her weight to get fit and skinny, and he couldn't handle it. He remarried, and she's thick. There is someone for everyone.
By thick you mean fat? If so, then no, I don't like fat girls. I do like thick thighs though, but I consider them thick when they're toned, you know? Give me an example of a thick girl, and I will give you a better answer.
I don't think there is a standard answer because there is no such thing as an "Average Guy" - Body mean more to some and others would be much more thinking about the whole package body/face/personality
You are not completely wrong when you said men go by what they see. Now do not feel dejected Co men don't like same thing. To some men the thick woman is their choice. In Africa thick women rock. Owning to the fact that they are humbler and much more dedicated to relationship. Where the problem will be is when the woman is a jerk. It does not matter the size men don't like those to give them trouble. I can go for a size 9 but she has Try and do work out cos I am a sport man. She can still maintain a healthy weight.
As a person I care the personality so much more than appearance because every girl will have their appearance older and older day by day, however their personality will be lively as it was in the first day.
I hope you find a good person who take care of your personality and who know how to make you happy.