like say on a dating app. if you're a decent looking girl you'll get tons of matches daily. if you're a decent looking guy, you're lucky to get more than one match a day. why is this so? how come dating has to be so much harder for guys?
Most Helpful Girl
Because 1. Gender roles say that men should do all/most of the approaching, so that means less women approach.
2. Guys tend to be a bit more desperate anyway and
3. Like half of those guys messaging just want sex anyway.
As for matching on apps like tinder, I dunno if you've noticed but most guys I've seen so far "like" every single girl they come across whereas girls are a bit "slower". Like we take our time to check out the other pics, his age, his bio and then decide if we want to like or dislike the guy. When my brother first got tinder, he hit the like limit within 2 minutes. When that happened, I was like "NO WAY! There's a limit?" Lol.2
Most Helpful Guy
Because males are culturally conditioned to follow a behavior pattern for trying to find a female partner which inevitably fails. You know, trying to be a romantic and stuff. It just seems clingy and creepy, and essentially makes you avoid the fact that women are people too.0