I met this guy on tinder, and we've been on a few dates, and we've had a lot of fun. He likes everything on my instagram and facebook- but he doesn't text me.
But here's the kicker, he doesn't ever text me first. So, I decided to text him the other day and he responds immediately and we talked for about an hour and a half- and he said he missed me.
But why doesn't he text me first? Is he just not interested in me?
Most Helpful Guy
Hmm, that's a tough one. It will require all my mystical powers of clairvoyance and psychic astral projecting to deduce the answer. I will have to go and consult the masculine hivemind.
Wait... you were texting him, right? OK, that may be helpful.
What you need to do, and is is the important step, get your phone. Now, open up the messaging application you prefer to use.
OK, you still with me? What you want to do is find his name. Once you do that, initiate the messaging feature. You want to send a clear text message to this person. On it, you should write the following phrase:
"Why do you not text me first? Just asking."
After this, hit send. It may take up to a few seconds for the message to actually get to him, so do not expect instantaneous results.0
Most Helpful Girl
Probably because he expects you to always text first. Let him initiate the next time.0