I asked where he could see where this is going. He said frienss and possibly benefits and relationship? I told him straight up and he said he was just joking with the benefits part
Most Helpful Guy
It means he wants to get close to you, wants you to open up to him, wants to know you inside and out, and wants to spoil you with a night of entertainment.
However, it also means that if you want sex, he'll gladly give you that too. But if not, then he won't force the issue. He's up for you, for however far you're willing to let things go.
He has to be able to trust you to quite a degree to be that open - unless he's a predator, in which case it's an attempt to get you to let your guard down.
If a guy is offered sex by a pretty woman and he refuses, he usually has a very good reason. Be it universal transtemporal morality, a sickness, a hang-up of some sort, whatever. If he has no real sexual mores and is up for anything, he typically won't say no if you are the one offering sex. Most will not pass up the offer if it is given.1
Most Helpful Girl
It means he's not serious about you.0