I was texting with the guy I've been dating for 3 weeks. He brought up the fact that he really wanted to sleep with me when we were hanging out at my house earlier today. I responded that
"I'm not interested in sleeping with a guy unless I am in a committed relationship with him". He then responded that he "feels the same way and he is looking for a committed relationship too"...
... Was that his way of telling me that we are in a relationship now? I can't tell for sure based on this response.
Most Helpful Guy
It's a two sided street. You have to be clear that what you have is a relationship, and he has to agree.
Committed means you won't date/hook up with other people unless you are both okay with that..
In terms of having sex, just make sure you consent, and he knows your consent.0
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like its heading that direction however if his first thought is to sleep with you prior you want to make sure he's in it for real.0