3mo Thanks for the replys.. Thoughts on the following QS Respect VS Love? Is love necessary to allow genuine respect. If a girl respects a guy does she love him, or can respect exist without true love? For genuine lasting respect is love necessary? To summarize my question are respect and love mutually exclusive. I believe you cannot exhibit genuine respect for a person without loving them (whether realized or not? Opinions?
I used to show interest in a guy only when drunk. I really think it was because I had a little feeling for him and also really liked the attention he gave me. But when I was sober, I wpull remember the reasoning about why we wouldn't work or why it wouldn't be appropriate for us to be together. My logic sense would remind me why we wouldnt/shouldn't work. However when I drank I would really like his attention and my slight feelings for him would be exemplified. Also, I would have the (dumb) excuse of blaming it on the alcohol.
If she isn't showing you these feelings sober, I personally don't think she's worth it! Why would you want someone who can't even fully like you without being on some thing that alters their brain function.